Healing vs. Acceptance – The Energy Dynamics behind any Healing Process

In this post, I wish to share my understanding of the energy movements during any healing process, be it conventional or non-conventional. This will come in handy when we discuss the issue of Acceptance.

But before that, the belief systems of Karma/Fate/Destiny and that of Duality need to be examined here.

Karma, in my opinion, is a kind of a spiritual carrot being used to lessen the impact of suffering in good, god-fearing human beings. Believing in Karma, Fate, Destiny etc. does help because the good humans then stop asking the question, “Why me?” The answer anyway is not easy to understand with the old human consciousness. 

But Karma / Fate / Destiny etc. are terms that spiritual pundits and the gurus use to keep their followers under control. 

In a way believing in karma does help because it brings a negative passive acceptance; the ‘suffering’ is not challenged then. This kind of acceptance does give the strength to somehow bear it. 

While the explanation that ‘God is punishing you for sins committed in some past life’ was acceptable not too long ago, it no longer makes sense to me.  The reality is that I was not comfortable even when I did believe it.

I realised that the same persons who uttered these words had no hesitation in also saying, ‘God is merciful and does not judge and forgives everyone’.

This really had me confused. Was I being forgiven or was I being punished?

The new thought ‘I am free from all past life karmas’ made a lot of sense to me. I accepted this rather easily. 

This indeed is my belief system now. Absolutely! This will not - can not - change, no matter what happens to me from now onwards. This is my new consciousness. 

The older belief systems that may have worked for me in some past life-times, if any, have been totally released. If others continue to live with those, so be it and their journeys are also honoured.

The new belief-system does not make me better in any way whatsoever. More at peace, definitely, but better? No way. I am that I am.
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Duality Energies:

The duality energies of Positive and Negative; Good and Bad; Darkness and Light; Strong and Weak; Healthy and Sick, like all other duality energies are ONE and not TWO. They co-exist as in two sides of the same coin. A coin is not going to be complete if one of the two faces had nothing embossed on it. 

The duality energies have always been together in universe (can not have day without night) but there was a split as far as human consciousness was concerned.

I too believed that Darkness and Light were separate as graphically represented by the following two circles.

Healing according to the old belief system meant that I had to remove the darkness and replace it with light. This indeed was the intention as no doubt still is of many healers/channels across the world.

This worked at times. But there were also situations when the problems that I had thought were healed came back almost overnight. I admit that it was a bit perplexing whenever this happened. 

Faith also took a beating in moments like this.

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But these dark moments were also wonderful as they opened me up for accepting the new belief systems.

The energies of Darkness and Light were not TWO but ONE which was contrary to what I had earlier understood. The true meaning of the ancient yin-yang symbol hit me the moment I accepted this belief system.

The reality is that we can not have Good, Strength, Light etc. without having the opposite sides, the other face of the coin, so to say. Good/Bad, Dark/Light, Positive/Negative, Up/Down etc. are together and always have been.

This is now the new consciousness. These concepts were known but not really understood for what they really meant. 

As a result, Darkness is no longer being rejected but accepted to be an integral part of Creation. 

The ones living with this consciousness are also accepting Darkness by default. The earlier struggle of trying to end Darkness in Life is gone. This consciousness is now spreading from a few to many. It will take a bit of time before ALL humans can integrate this. That anyway has been the case whenever some major shift has occurred in human consciousness. Everyone does not integrate all new belief systems simultaneously. It just is not possible. 
There was a time on planet earth when eating raw meat was the norm. The one who accidentally discovered that meat cooked over fire becomes tender and also lasts longer moved into a different consciousness. But all humans who were walking on earth (at that time) did not start cooking their food simultaneously.
Likewise in the present scenario, only those humans who are ready for this shift to happen will move into the consciousness of no longer getting disturbed by the ‘negative’.
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How will this knowledge help? 

Well, for starters this means accepting that Good Health and Bad Health coexist. Being in a Painful state or a state of Painlessness is the same thing. (I will not blame you if you are thinking that this is absurd and that I am crazy. But please bear with me, I'll come back to this in a moment...) 

The state that is visible is not 100%. 

I will expand on the concept of yin-yang a bit more as this too fails to explain how transformation from light to darkness occurs and vice-versa.

There are not two energy components as is believed but rather three - dark, light and neutral. I have re-worked the original symbol in order to explain this. The modified symbol, according to me is:

While Dark/Light are integral and in a way fixed, it is the neutral component that has the ability to change its attributes. It is the effect of the neutral that decides whether we are experiencing the positive or the negative in any duality situation at any given moment.

When the neutral transforms to Dark, we experience two parts of darkness which makes darkness sixty-six and two third. Although it might feel in that moment that Darkness is 100% in our lives, it NEVER is. There always is one-third Light hiding just behind the Darkness. I have explained this graphically below by the two symbols:

Ditto that for situations when we have Light in our lives. 

The other face of the coin is very much there; it is just not visible in the moment. 
(I will be glad to email the power point presentation that I have made which explains this in detail. Please email me at surinder@aashirwadhealing.com)  

Healing according to the New Consciousness:

So what we are experiencing at any point in time is not 100% but only two thirds of that experience. The reality  changes when the neutral starts changing its attribute. Good times as well as Bad times don’t last, right? 

This is what happens whenever we have the experience of having been healed – whether it is through medication or meditation; OR with Reiki, Crystal or any other so called alternative therapies.

The neutral component which was acting Dark transformed to Light.

This in effect means that whenever our Headache (for example) has been taken care of with medicines, rest or healing and we start having the experience of No Headache, the ache is still there. It is not in our conscious awareness, that’s all. 

Reiki channels who have had the experience of problems that they thought were healed, coming back, now know why? The Neutral that had become Light has changed colours again, that’s all.

So when the pain is not being felt, the potential for it to come back is still there.

Logically, so when this belief system is firmly in place, then ‘healing’ is just a matter of ‘converting’ this Neutral part from the Negative role that it is playing in the moment to Positive.

This, by the way, requires lot less effort and time when compared to the old method of removing all darkness and bringing in light.

How to trigger / bring about this conversion is what I’ll take up in my next posts…

Till then all is well!


  1. It is amazing how my creator is teaching me this very lesson, then I find this and it reinforces what I am learning. what the creator is showing you is indeed the truth! Let us magnify and multiply the truths given to us. The universal principle says that you can not make (add) energy or destroy (subtract) energy We are to multiply and divide. The reason for this is so we can see a greater picture with out distorting the truth. I think you have grasped the truth that there is ONE creator. This creator made the universe and set these principles in place. So, if we begin asking questions then we already know that the answer needs to = 1. your truth =1 the truth that I will share with you now =1. If I add to what you have said 1+1=2. We know that 2 is the wrong answer, we know that 1 is the correct answer. multiplication is to numbers as magnification is to light. 1 x 1= 1 By multiplication we can come to the correct answer.

  2. Dividing 1 by 1 also equals one, but for now let's move on. I'm sure you already have the question "what about 0, what about neutral?" Do the math.
    0 x 0= 0. the number 0 still carries the value of 1. Do I have your attention now? The 3 points that you have found in studying the yin yang symbol are the same 3 laws of science as it relates to energy. energy flows from the source to the ground point, witch is also a part of the source. The negative, just like you said, can carry the current of both. An electrician calls neutral the "common ground." It is at this point that we can see whole picture. Again, you are correct that the picture we see depends on the greater of the two. It depends on where our actions are in comparison to the 3 poles. This is where I need to show you a diagram. Contact me at turntablebilliards@yahoo.com so we can exchange diagrams.

  3. Correction: The Neutral, just like you said, can carry the current of both positive and negative.

  4. the 3 energies that you describe exist also in the spiritual dimension. They are a mirrored image. They are also an inverted image. Just like a magnifying glass that moves away from an image. The truth of the image never changes. it only gets bigger. Then, at the point of passover, the image becomes mirrored. Do you understand?

  5. Please contact me. I wish to improve our conscience.

  6. Do not try to envoke what you have learned. It is when we act out of our own understanding that we short out the flow of energy. You have found the first of 3. There is a bigger picture. The same 3 points you have found exist in a spiritual dimension and that makes 6 points. The existence of those 6 points gives birth to 6 other points that are the direct result of the first 6 points. please, be humble in your advances.

  7. Chad: Thanks for posting your comments. The last one is what I need to talk about and understand your perspective. Have sent an email.

  8. very interesting article and also very interested in what you have said too Chad, blessings to you both