Healing vs. Acceptance - Bringing it All Together

After the previous posts went online, my attention was drawn to the fact that certain religious rituals/ceremonies are known to help reduce/change the negative created in life because of the planetary positions at the time of birth, karma, bad luck etc. The question that was raised was, 'What about this method of healing those issues in life which are basically not acceptable?'

I am not denying that positive results do not manifest through religious ceremonies, rituals etc...

.. but this does not happen in each and every case. 

I am talking here about the ones who are staunch believers and have absolute faith in the religions and the ceremonies, prayers etc. 

Who do they turn to when the results do not manifest? Obviously there are no known solutions - yet. We, as a human race, have a lot to learn about life and about being Creators in the true sense of the word. 

I think that the present times that we live in are just about right for a major shift to take place in how we tackle these 'problems' in life. This is what I am taking up in this post.

Healing vs. Acceptance - The Soul Aspect

Learning how energy moved behind all situations - good as well as bad - felt wonderful because I felt that I finally held the key that will help unlock all the doors that were still closed in life and I will be able to become the Master of my own Destiny. 

For all that I would now need to do was move the neutral aspect from the Dark to Light in all the situations that were non-acceptable in life. I had faith and confidence in my abilities as an energy moving healer and thought that this will help me create all that I wanted. I started dreaming about abundance, perfect body, perfect state of health, perfect relationships and so on.

But much to my chagrin, the moment I started applying 'force' through Reiki (along with the appropriate intentions) for 'fixing' my issues of abundance and weight, the situations actually became worse. Money stopped flowing in altogether while the weight shot up dramatically. (That was in 2006, the evidence for which has already been posted here in this blog.)

I remember that it was around that time that my attention was drawn to the Soul aspect of human beings. I started giving serious thought to what exactly the phrase 'Harmony at the level of Body, Mind and Soul' meant. 

I intuitively knew that it was this 'Soul aspect' that now needed to be understood.

In this post, I am sharing what came next into my life i.e. the knowledge of  how we invite both the good as well as the bad experiences in  life. This knowledge then helped me move into a space where I stopped applying 'force' to bring the desired changes. Because it was then that I learnt about the value of "Accepting All Things As They Are".

Healing vs. Acceptance – The Energy Dynamics behind any Healing Process

In this post, I wish to share my understanding of the energy movements during any healing process, be it conventional or non-conventional. This will come in handy when we discuss the issue of Acceptance.

But before that, the belief systems of Karma/Fate/Destiny and that of Duality need to be examined here.

Healing vs. Acceptance

How can healing and ‘being in acceptance’ go together? I am unable to understand the connection between them. I feel that the term ‘healing’ is used when we want to change something which is uncomfortable at present and is therefore not acceptable. 

On the other hand we also use the phrase ‘balancing of energies at all levels - physical, mental, emotional, spiritual, karmic etc.’ when we are not sure of the cause of the problem. Please explain how 'balancing' works automatically when we are in acceptance of things. In that case do we need any additional healing method?

The above were asked in an email and this post is the result.

Monday Morning Blues – It's Not About You

I woke up on Monday morning with a feeling commonly known as Monday morning blues. I lay in bed not wanting to get up, get dressed and go to work and started wondering where the feelings were coming from. I KNEW the answer as soon as I had asked the question and the mood changed instantly. I was up in a flash, got dressed and was out of the house with a spring in my step ready to tackle whatever the day had in store for me.

It has not always been like this. Transforming the energy of lethargy to one of suddenly being alert and awake required one important lesson to be learnt which is what I am sharing here...

Tips for Healers

I do not know about the journey of others but there were several situations in my personal life that I knew could change with a bit of healing but somehow:

Either I was unable to kick start the healing process or the desired results did not manifest and at times the situation actually became worse whenever I could do a bit of healing.

Mind you this was not for all the situations in my life but a few which were personally very close to me. This, as anyone can imagine, was a bit frustrating and did create plenty of doubts, not to mention a great deal of turmoil and heartburn. The ego took a huge beating and I sure was a desperate Reiki Grandmaster searching for resolution and peace within. It was about then that the knowledge (that I am sharing in these posts) started coming my way and turned things around in my life.

Three Healing Situations plus One More

In this post, I wish to share the stories of three healing situations that were encountered recently. There are some lessons that can be learned from these experiences. I sure have learnt mine.

Children with Special Needs

A question was asked when the previous post ‘Healees, Healers and Healing Facilitators’ went online, ‘What about children with special needs, i.e. differently-abled children?’

I am assuming that the one who has asked this question wants to have a deeper understanding of such situations so as to be a more effective healer/healing facilitator. Or maybe it is a parent who is living with a lot of pain while witnessing the events that are unfolding in a child’s life.

About Healees, Healers and Healing Facilitators

The word ‘healer’ is derived from ‘to heal’ (literally: to fix something, to cure, to restore to health) and literally means ‘someone who cures’. On the same lines, ‘healing facilitators’ facilitate the process of healing in others. Both strive to get the same end results yet there is a subtle difference in the way each operates. 

Those who utilise their services are commonly called as ‘patients’. I do not like the energies that have become associated with this word and like to call them as ‘healees’.   

So we have healees, healers and healing facilitators.